I used to be one of those people who hated George Steinbrenner. And I knew I had lots of company. He was obnoxious and overbearing and so over-the-top full of himself. Then I became a New York Yankees fan and I tempered that feeling a bit - but only a bit.

Only in the past few years, since his death in 2010, have I been able to see that the man’s passion was the all-important key in turning around a failing team and resurrecting a baseball dynasty. His passionate energy and vision not only saved an historic sports franchise, but extended into the greater New York community as well and, as the years go on, I am sure that I’ll learn more and more about how the former owner of the New York Yankees touched people’s lives.

So what can I learn about passion from this man? Well, for one, that emotion isn’t always pretty. If you have it, it doesn’t mean everyone will always like you, or agree with you. But it seems to be the rock that Steinbrenner relied on time and time again, and it also was what drove him, even when everyone around him had opinions contrary to his. He was the light-bearer in the team’s dark times, even if that torch may have burned a few nay-sayers in its path. And it lit a few others’ torches in the process.

I can’t imagine myself ever being comfortable knowing that there are people who revile me – it’s just not my personality. But I can learn to stand a little straighter and believe in my convictions, even in the face of adversity. I can learn to embrace my passions and pursue them wholeheartedly, knowing that there is nothing that can take them from me. And I can cheer on my Yankees again and again...thanks to a man who had a clear vision of their greatness!

RIP George.

A writer, a certified coach, a speaker and a woman living a “should-free” life, Janet Neal has worked in education, corporations, non-profits, and as an entrepreneur. Her company, The Superbwoman™, Inc., focuses on helping women move from being stressed out Superwomen to becoming peaceful, productive and powerful Superbwomen™! Janet is also the author of Soul in Control. You can visit her websites at www.janetmneal.com and www.thesuperbwoman.com.